Self Love

Love all over Me….

So a couple of weeks ago I went out for a girls night to see Monica. Ya’ll when I tell you that Monica can sang excuse my language but the woman has skills. There are three key points I took away from this experience.

  1. Enjoy yourself- Sometimes we get so consumed with everything that’s going on in the world or just everyday life that we forget to get out and just have fun! When it comes to self love it’s always a good practice to get all dress up, do a little beat to your face and live life Hunni!! I haven’t been to concert in a few months so it felt great! Ladies if any concerts are coming to your city any time soon get you a ticket and have a night out!!! Ok now that we have discussed getting out, you have to have a partner to go with you. You can do a night out with your hubby, boyfriend, best friend, or just make it a girls night out(whoop whoop)!!



2.  Have a Girls Night- So I decided to make it a girls night out OMG I LIVE FOR THOSE!!! See when you get grown grown you have to schedule/plan for nights out with friends and they are very rare. Hey that’s just a way of life, the older you get the more responsibilities you gain, but that’s another topic for another day. Anyway I went with my Bestie and we had the time of our lives. Oh I almost forgot men will go see Monica,but if (some of them ) had a choice they would definitely let you go with the girls. I told my boyfriend( I love that man by the way) babe Monica is coming to town and he politely said oh ok babe I’ll get you a ticket to go with the GIRLS.. So you know I gave him the side eye right lol!!! Then he fixed it up and said I would love to come with you, but I think you would enjoy that more with your girls. See what he didn’t know was I was going with my friends anyway I was just seeing if he was down for the cause lol.I knew it was over when he said he hasn’t listen to Monica since “99” I was like oh ok… Now let me get to best part of the night Monica and message she gave while performing Love All Over Me…

3. Love All over me – Throughout Monica’s show she shared how she has been through so much, but she still made it and feels a love she has never felt before. When a person is truly in love or feels love you can you just tell by the way the interact with people. When you know learn how to love you share it with everyone. This can be through just saying I love you, praying for others, speaking words of Affirmation, or by expressing your love through a nice gesture. Monica really spoke to me and had me in my feelings in a good way. Do you ever feel like omg I love what’s happening to me but I’m a little nervous about it. Like is this really for me? Yes it is…  All the love that you are experiencing is just the beginning. So the morale of the story is that a girls night gave me a whole new outlook on life and self love. Ladies we truly have love all over us so embrace it and enjoy it! Remember this is just the beginning. Thanks Monica for putting it into perspective… DID I SAY THE GIRL CAN SING well i’ll just say it again. Until next time my loves!!!